If you judge people, you have no time to love them. ~ Mother Teresa ~
Instead of judging someone, we need to allow ourselves to see the whole person. Often we will find there is so much strength and attraction in a person when we are less judgmental and more loving. We can enjoy the essence of another person and the moment we are sharing together.
No one is perfect. Many times people are not as they first appear. Get to know them. Priorities are different in different people. What might be important to you might not be important to someone else. You might not know what they are dealing with in their life. Before you judge someone, think about how you would act in the same situation. We are all different and have different problems.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Think before you speak, pause before you act, for it is very difficult to take the words back. You cannot un-ring the bell. We want to be accepted unconditionally, so why not do the same for others.